Emily Alice Weir
| Location | Motherwell |
| Age | 11 days |
| Cause of Death | Organ Failure |
| Date of Birth | 06/10/2006 |
| Date of Death | 17/10/2006 |
| Visitors | 5,815 since 30/12/2006 |
| Creator | Liann Weir |
| Helpers | Liann Weir |
Emily was born on 6th October 2006. It had been a very eventful pregnancy, with
episodes of bleeding, a low placenta and then pre-eclampsia. These complications
eventually led to placental abruption and Emily was born by emergency cesarian
section at just over 25 weeks gestation. Her apgar scores at birth were good as
I had been given steroids to develop her lungs only a week earlier!
For the first week of her life, Emily fought well. We became more involved with
her care, changing her nappies, tube feeding her and everyday they would
increase the volume of breastmilk given to her.
Emily had some special people visiting her, including grandparents, aunties,
uncles and special friends, she would always be kicking and wriggling,
entertaining her crowd!
When Emily had been born, they had found an open duct in her heart which is very
common in premature babies, they started her on medication to rectify this when
she was 7 days old as she seemed to be getting stronger. This is where things
started to go wrong.
Emily developed septicaemia from the site in her umbilical cord where her lines
were going in. Her kidney's began to fail and she became very oedemic. She
eventually was so swollen that she couldnt move and because her kidney's were
not excreting, the level of potassium in her body was dangerously high, they
suspected that this would result in cardiac arrest and immediate death.
They asked us if we wanted to have Emily baptised but we knew that God would
take her straight to Heaven regardless of whether or not she was baptised. We
have a close relationship with our minister so asked him to come and pray over
Emily. One of the neonatal nurses was also a Christian and she too took time to
pray over Emily as did our friend.
Around 1.30am on 17th October, the hospital phoned to say that Emily's heart had
stopped beating twice already and that if we wanted to go to the unit we could.
I didn't want to go, partly because I thought she would pull through, partly
because I had not slept for days and partly because I didn't want to admit
reality.
We did go up and were taken aside a little while later. We had noticed a few
days earlier that Emily had been having seizures constantly, from my experience
with children with epilepsy I knew that this was not good news. The consultant
explained that Emily was not going to make it. Her brain had been severely
damaged by the seizure activity and her lungs had collapsed. She had effectively
tried to die three times already and bringing her back each time was serving no
purpose other than giving us more time with her. We agreed that should she stop
fighting again, we would let her go.
Over the next few hours, Emily's condition deteriorated, she was in a constant
state of seizure and her body temperature was dropping. We knew that she was
leaving us. Again, we were taken aside and it was explained that Emily was only
with us because the ventilator was keeping her lungs open. We eventually had to
agree with the recommendation that her machines be turned off and she be allowed
to die in my arms, rather than in an incubator surrounded by medical staff.
We watched as they took out her morphine line, her diazepam line etc etc. I then
took her into my arms and held her tight. Colin and I told her how much we loved
her and watched as they took out her ventilation tube, finally we could see her
beautiful mouth, however it also meant watching her take her last breaths. A few
minutes later she left us.
Although Emily's life was far too short, the impact she made was amazing. We
have raised over £2000 for Tommy's in memory of Emily and many people have been
encouraged in their Christian faith because of her.
We are so blessed to have been chosen to be her parents and only wish she could
have stayed with us longer.
New TributeTributes to Emily
There have been 58 tributes left for Emily.
Marie-Angela Rowe 1 week agoHave A Good Weekend Everyone
This Tribute Is For Friday Got Busy Day Tomorrow
Right now I'm in a different place
And though we seem apart
I'm closer than I ever was
... I'm there inside your heart
I'm with you when you greet each day
And while the sun shines bright
I'm there to share the sunsets, too
... I'm with you every night
I'm with you when the times are good
To share a laugh or two,
And if a tear should start to fall
... I'll still be there for you
And when that day arrives
That we no longer are apart,
I'll smile and hold you close to me
... Forever
If Roses grow in Heaven,
Lord please pick a bunch for me
Place them in my Loved One’s arms
And tell them they're from me
Tell them I love and miss them
And when they turns to smile
Place a kiss upon their cheeks
And hold them for awhile
Because remembering them is easy,
I do it every day
But there's an ache within my heart
Because I am missing them today...
Although death has separated us physically,
Faith and love have bound us eternally.
Though we cannot see you,
We know you are here.
Though we cannot touch you,
We feel the warmth of your smile,
As we begin a new chapter in our lives.
Today we pause to reflect upon
Those who have shaped our character,
Molded our spirits and touched our hearts.
May the lighting of this tribute be a
Reminder of the memories we have shared,
A representation of the everlasting
Impact you have made upon our lives.
Thoughts Today Memories Forever
Angela(Christopher-John Rowe)Mum
Thursday
For Friday
Arrons Sister ..x
I Read What Your Mum Put And it Made Me Cry ..
your Mums So Lucky to Have Tou With Her And I Hope U Look After Her ..
Love You Baby ....xxx
Shainie Matthews 1 week ago
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Lyndsey Freebury 2 weeks ago
"Angel"
Tear drops, slow and steady,
The pain so real and true,
God took another angel,
And that angel, dear, was you.
Angel wings, upon the clouds,
Your body softly sleeps,
Hush now little angel,
No more tears you have to weep.
little prayers,are sent to you,
The short life you led;
Your family will never forget you,
So rest your little head.
I know God will look after you,
Now you are truly alive,
Your spirit soars beyond the moon,
Your legacy will survive.
You’re beautiful, you’re endless,
Now stretch your wings and fly,
Your loved by so many,
It will never be goodbye.
Close your pretty eyes,
No more tears,just go and rest,
Let your soul lie peacefully,
we know you did your best.
Mell Campbell October 6, 2008, 4:15 pm
Sleep tight baby girlie xx
I came across your memorial and was very touched by it, in fact it made me cry. i have a little girl she is 5 weeks old today, i feel so blessed to have her. u look really pretty and so small, sleep tight little girl xxxx
Gemma Willetts October 6, 2008, 2:13 pm
Debbie Elwood (Friend) October 6, 2008, 2:02 pmEmily,Your memory is our keepsake,
With which we'll never part,
God has you in his keeping,
While we have you in our hearts
Thinking of you today, lots of love and prayers
debz x x x x x x x x x x
Though your smile is gone forever,
Your hands we cannot touch,
Still we have so many memories,
Of the ones we love so much
Your memory is our keepsake,
With which we'll never part,
God has you in his keeping,
While we have you in our hearts
Fran Hutton October 6, 2008, 9:32 am
Marie-Angela Rowe September 28, 2008, 12:03 amA SPECIAL HEART FOR ALL SPECIAL ANGELS…
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Gone are the days we used to share,
But in our hearts you are always there,
The gates of memory will never close,
We miss you more than anyone knows,
With tender love and deep regret,
We who love you will never forget.
Angela (Christopher-John Rowe) Mum
Marie-Angela Rowe September 15, 2008, 10:00 pm(¨`·.·´¨) (¨`·.·´¨)
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We little knew that morning
God was going to call your name.
In life we loved you dearly,
In death we do the same.
It broke our hearts to lose you,
You did not go alone.
For part of us went with you
The day God called you home.
You left us beautiful memories,
Your love is still our guide.
And though we cannot see you,
You are always at our side.
Our family chain is broken,
And nothing seems the same.
But as God calls us one by one,
The chain will link again.
Always in our thoughts
Forever in our hearts
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(¸.•´ (¸.•´ .•´ ¸¸.•¨¯`♥ A ♥ X ♥ X
Angela (Christopher-John Rowe) Mum
Marie-Angela Rowe September 14, 2008, 3:36 pm♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥
Your presence we miss,
Your memory we treasure,
Loving you always,
Forgetting you never.
No farewell words were spoken,
No time to say goodbye,
You were gone before we knew it,
And only God can tell us why.
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Angela (Christopher-John Rowe) Mum
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There have been 262 candles lit for Emily.
Thinking of you
sweetie... Watch
over Mummy and
Daddy x x x Your presence we
miss,
Your memory we
treasure,
Loving you always,
Forgetting you
never.
Thoughts Today
Memories Forever
Angela(Christopher-
John Rowe)MumThinking of the
thoughtful things,
That you have said
and done,
And loving you a
little more,
For each and every
one.
Thoughts Today
Memories Forever
Angela(Christopher-
John Rowe)Mum
Lyndsey Freebury lit a candle on Nov 16, 2008, 7:06 pm
Elsie McAllister lit a candle on Nov 9, 2008, 3:41 pmHope You are having
a lovely day. All
my love Elsie xxx